Thursday, April 17, 2014

Volcano Eggs: An Awesome Way to Dye Easter Eggs

My cousin Jen is such a fun mom and when I heard about the volcano eggs she made with her preschooler, I knew I had to do the same with Tory. I love how Jen never shies away from a craft or children's activity for fear it might make a mess in her kitchen. She's so creative with her girls. Lauren and Reese are lucky to have her!



I had already purchased a dozen white eggs and the traditional egg coloring kit for Tory and I to do as an activity together but when I saw Jen's volcano eggs, I knew we had to make those instead. While Tory napped yesterday afternoon, I boiled and cooled the eggs and prepped the baking soda paint we'd use for the activity. The baking soda paint was simple to make (I used a tbsp. baking soda, a splash of water and a few drops of food coloring) and I loved how I had all the ingredients already in my pantry. No need to even buy the egg coloring kit at the store. Some of my paints were a little on the runny side and now having done this activity, I'd make the baking soda paint a little thicker next time. I used a cookie sheet to contain any volcanic eruptions and a muffin tin to hold eggs and paints in place for Tory to use.


When Tory woke up from her nap, she was so excited for the special surprise I'd arranged for her.

First, I let Tory paint the eggs in the muffin tin. She loves to paint and probably spent at least 20 minutes coloring the eggs in red, blue, yellow and green. By the way, "dyeing" Easter eggs by painting them like this was way more toddler-friendly than doing it the traditional method. Seriously, it kept Tory highly engaged for at least 20 minutes. She had a ball and the mess was fairly minimal.



I think Tory would've been happy just painting eggs, but oh no - there was more! I slid over a cookie sheet filled with glasses, placed a baking-soda-painted egg inside one and poured a small amount of vinegar into a plastic cup for Tory to handle. I directed her to pour the vinegar onto the egg in the glass and FIZZZ! Up went bubbles inside the glass covering her freshly painted egg. Tory was so impressed!




I wish I knew more about science or chemical reactions or something, so I could've used it as a teaching moment ... but, I don't so we just watched the eggs fizz with lots of ooh's and ahh's together. Now, here's the part about when I do this activity again (which I totally would because it was so much fun!), I would make the baking soda paint thicker to give more pizazz to our fizzing. The thinner paint still fizzed, but not as much. Still, Tory thought it was very cool so mission accomplished in the end.



Tory loved this activity so much, she asked to make "balcanoes" over and over again. I pulled the eggs out of the cups, slapped on some more baking soda paint and re-used the same vinegar to make more volcanoes. In the end, our eggs weren't much than blue blobs but who cares -- we had such a fun time together. Definitely adding this to our Easter line-up of activities every year. Thanks for the idea, Jen!

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Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Pre-Easter Celebration

Last Sunday, Andi, Tory, Aden and I went to Andi's parents house for a pre-Easter celebration. Since we're going to be in Nebraska for Easter this year and Andi's sister Lindsay and her fiancé Kyle will be in Europe (lucky!), we all decided to get together to celebrate a little early.

The Easter Bunny (aka: Grandma and Grandpa) spoiled the kids with cute little Easter baskets plum full with goodies. Tory received new jammies, foam craft duckies, a Velcro toss and catch game (remember those?), sunglasses, candy and some coloring activities to do during our drive to Nebraska later this week. Aden got an adorable stuffed ducky, a few outfits, a rattle and a sun hat.




Janie made a nice ham dinner for everyone, and we ate while coloring Easter eggs at the table. Tory did a nice job coloring eggs with Andi. She didn't have much technique (just tossed the eggs into the colored water), but had fun nonetheless. Lindsay and Kyle's dedication to coloring the perfect egg was much stronger. 





Crazy how much has changed since we celebrated Easter with Andi's family last year. A year ago, Andi and I announced our pregnancy with Aden to family and Tory was so small sitting at the table coloring eggs for the first time. Next year this time, Aden will be coloring eggs himself and Tory will be that much bigger. Feeling very fortunate for all we have and for the loved ones surrounding us. 

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

7 Quick Takes: Dairy, Sleep, Cabin Updates, First Haircut

1. Well, I'm back on the dairy train. That didn't last long. I cut dairy last week, then re-introduced it with some cheese over the weekend and it didn't seem to affect Aden either way. Now, I'm thinking the pediatrician was probably right and Aden's skin irritations are caused by the dry air / cold weather. I've been diligent about applying lotion several times a day and Aden hasn't had any skin rashes or redness since the one incident at the beginning of last week. See, this is what parenting's like inside my head. I go back and forth on topics until I've hashed them to death. Is the rash from something I'm eating? Is he getting enough to eat? Is there something I'm missing? Maybe it's not a big deal at all? Gah.

2. Dare I say we're moving in the right direction re: sleep in our household? It's been a tough month(s) in the sleep department with multiple wake-ups from Tory and Aden every night. Andi started sleeping downstairs in our spare bedroom so he could be semi-functional at work during the week and giving me extra time on the weekends to catch up. Our family's entire method of function was off-kilter from lack of sleep. There was a gray fog cast on every aspect of life. Luckily, things seem to be on the up-swing and Aden's pulled a few 3-4 hours stretches at night which isn't perfect but feels heavenly in comparison to the previous few weeks. Best of all, I don't feel like stabbing someone at every waking moment. The world moves on.

3. Andi's mom has been babysitting the kids on Sunday evenings and it's been wonderful. We're often driving home from the cabin on Sundays and since her house is on the way, she's offers to keep them for a couple hours from the time we drop them off until bedtime. One week, Andi and I ran to the Apple Store together (something I loathe doing alone when I have the kids) and two weeks ago, Andi went to dinner with friends while I shopped and went to a coffee shop alone. This past Sunday, we celebrated Easter with Andi's family and his parents offered to keep Tory overnight. It is such a breath of fresh air to have a break at the end of the weekend and to start the week with a fresh slate. So thankful for that.

4. We amped up to a new level of redneck at the cabin this past weekend: Andi bought car seats for the Ranger ATV so we can take family "truck rides" together. Driving around the countryside is one of our favorite things to do on the weekends. Now the kids are safe and secure inside the Ranger and I just feel so much better about taking them on trails and country roads. Excited for it to warm up a bit around here so we can all get out there.

Andi and Tory out for a 'truck ride" this past weekend

5. We're hoping to do a few cabin remodeling projects before summer officially begins in Wisconsin. Last fall, we replaced the appliances and added a sauna and outdoor shower. This spring, we're hoping to update the countertops with granite and put in new flooring on the middle level to replace some mis-matched carpet. Excited to see how it all comes together. All I can think about when I watch TV or flip through magazines these days is back-splashes, cabinet colors and countertops.

6. We also bought a canoe for the cabin. Andi has grand plans to take family canoe trips this summer on a few of the rivers by the cabin. We did one on Father's Day last year and it was really fun, but it was bit challenging with a constantly-moving toddler. I held onto Tory most of the time while Andi paddled us the length of our trip down the river. Our new canoe has a trolling motor, so problem solved! We'll just turn on the motor and zoom down the river when Andi doesn't feel like paddling his entire family in a canoe! Wish us luck canoeing this summer with two small children. Life's all about the adventure, right?

7. Aden got his first haircut this morning. I'm still somewhat embarrassed / shocked I let a hairstylist come near my baby boy's head with a pair of scissors, but Aden's hair was seriously out of control. There were some very long baby hairs on the top of his head and a few random ones sticking out the sides. Elsewhere, Aden has peach fuzz just starting to grow in so I thought it'd be best to even it all out. Tory, Aden and I were at the kids salon for Tory's haircut, so I politely asked the stylist to clean up Aden's hair a bit, too. She snipped away the long hairs on top and gave me a baggie with his tiny blond strands. People probably thought I was crazy, but oh well. He really does look better.

Little buddy, 21 weeks old today

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Bye, Bye Dairy

Since birth, Aden has had dry, sensitive skin and in the last few months, he's battled a nasty rash on his neck, chest, armpits and head. I've tried all the over-the-counter creams and lotions and nothing seems to truly remedy the issue. His pediatrician chocks it up to the harsh climate we live in, saying he sees babies and kids all day long with irritated skin caused by the dry, cold weather.

It's one thing to have dry skin (I think everyone has some level of this in the wintertime), but Aden's re-occurring rash is different. My poor boy breaks out in a rash a few times a week and itches his face, head, neck, chest and legs so badly he's left with bloody scratches all over his body. I keep baby mittens or socks on his hands 24/7 to prevent him from injuring himself, but now Aden's learned to bite the mittens off to free his hands. Clearly he's finding ways to scratch despite my efforts.

I might sound a little crazy, but I also worry about the development of Aden's hand/eye coordination because we wears mittens/socks on his hands all the time. If his hands are covered, he can't practice grasping or holding onto toys and the few minutes his hands are free, he looks at them like they're foreign objects. But, every time I take his mittens off, he scratches himself something fierce.

The doctor recommended an over-the-counter anti-itch cream to treat rash flare-ups and doses of Children's Benedryl to relieve Aden's discomfort. It works - temporarily - but I can't keep treating his symptoms this way every other day. My poor baby is suffering!

A friend of mine said her pediatrician recommended eliminating dairy when her son went through something similar as a baby. I've never thought much about what I eat and how it may affect Aden. Two days ago, I made a pot of my favorite Tomato Tortellini Soup (which is full of milk, cream and acidic tomatoes) and the next morning Aden woke up with a horrible rash on his head. Coincidence? Maybe.

So, I thought it might be worth a try to eliminate dairy from my diet for Aden's sake. What can it hurt to try it and see if dairy's the culprit for all his skin irritations. Yesterday was my first day cutting dairy and man, it's challenging. I never realized how many things contain milk until I tried to avoid it.

For breakfast, I usually have a bowl of oatmeal and coffee (black, so no issue there). Sometimes, I'll eat peanut butter toast and a banana. Those are my typical breakfast staples, so no big hardship there.

Dinners are fairly easy because we tend to eat a lot of baked chicken, shredded beef/pork in the Crockpot, etc. served with a steamed vegetable on the side. Cut out my occasional glass of milk and dairy's fairly easy to avoid during that meal.

It's lunchtime that's really throwing me for a loop. I'm a big soup and sandwich girl, and Tory and I usually have grilled cheese and tomato soup, turkey and cheese sandwiches, macaroni and cheese, or a cheese quesadilla with a side of sour cream during the week. Ranch is my favorite salad dressing, so even my go-to leafy green selection (lettuce, cottage cheese, croutons and Ranch) is out of the question.

So, I need some lunch ideas! What are some of your favorite dairy-free lunch meals? Preferably something quick and easy to prepare. Toddler-friendly ideas aren't mandatory, but ideally I wouldn't be preparing two lunches for both Tory and I on a daily basis.

Ready, GO! Leave me a comment; I'd love to hear from you. And hopefully, kicking dairy from my diet proves to be the answer to Aden's skin issues.

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Tory-isms

One of my favorite things about Age 2 1/2 is language development. Tory cracks me up on a daily basis. Sometimes, it's not even the phrase she said that's so funny, but the fact that such a little person is saying such a grown up thing.



Here's some classic Tory-isms lately:

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Me: Ah, man! I can't believe it's snowing again.

Tory: (shrugs shoulders in an off-handed way) We have a lot. Sorry.

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Me: (coughs)

Tory: Sounds like you need go to doctor.

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Tory: What you doing?

Me: I have to put this medicine on Aden's rash.

Tory: (sounding exasperated) I sure hope this works.

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Tory: Mom, can we go on abenture today?

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Tory: Do you want some?

Me: No thanks.

Tory: Okay, tell me you want one.

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(unexpectedly finding a toy in the bathtub)

Tory: Molly? That's weird.

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(during a dinner conversation between Andi and I)

Tory: Hmm. Uh huh.

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(attempting to comfort Aden crying from his swing)

Tory: Mom, I try my best.

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(whining before nap time)

Tory: I want my mom!

Me: I am your mom.

Tory: I want my dad!

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(stalling before nap time)

Me: Tory, put down the toy phone.

Tory: I just texting.

Monday, April 7, 2014

Weekend at Home

Andi and I made the call last Thursday to stay in the Twin Cities this past weekend. We rarely miss time at the cabin if we're available, but the forecast threatened a foot of snowfall on Thursday night / Friday morning and with snowmobile trails closed for the season, there's not much to do at the lake this time of year when temperatures aren't nice enough to be outdoors.

We did get 9 1/2 inches of heavy, wet snow as predicted and the roads were pretty rotten to drive on Friday morning. But, by 2:00pm, the sun was shining and the snow melting. I suspect it's similar to living in Colorado, where it snows but temperatures make it manageable to live. Unlike you, Minnesota. Ahem.

Anyway, we totally could have gone to the cabin after all but by then, we'd made plans for dinner with friends Saturday night. Andi and I decided to make the best of a weekend at home.

Though, it turns out weekends at home are hard for us. It's sounds strange, but Andi and I are like passing ships during the week. He leaves for work before I even wake up for the day (lately, it seems like 5:00am - 7:00am is the only time my children actually sleep so I am passed out from exhaustion). In the evenings, Andi returns home from work and we tag-team the kids' bedtime routine until collapsing into bed ourselves. Since I stay home, I do almost everything to manage the kids and household so weekends at home feel like another weekday to me. Like when we went to the Science Museum of Minnesota on Saturday morning and I shouted at Tory to "freeze" by the car as we were unloading Aden and the stroller. Clearly Andi is very capable of removing his daughter from her car seat and ensuring she doesn't run full-speed into parking lot traffic. I guess I'm so used to doing everything on my own when we're running around town during the week, I have a hard time relinquishing some of the responsibility when Andi's along. Having all of us home together throws our whole system out of whack.

We had a nice morning at the Science Museum. Tory was a little young for all the exhibits but two year olds can enjoy themselves just about anywhere. I laughed when Andi weighed Tory on a giant scale comparing people to the weight of fish in the Mississippi River. The dial barely moved when she stepped on and Andi said, "You weigh as much as a carp!" Ha. So random.






We brought lunch over to Andi's grandma's house since we were on her side of the Cities and then went to dinner at our friends Lindsey and Dan's house Saturday night. We had a blast over there. The little girls played dress-up and watched Cinderella and never squabbled once over toys. The babies had fun jumping in their respective gadgets and the adults drank wine over stories and take-out. It was really nice to see some of our "in town" friends on the weekend.

Aden (4 months) and Taylor (10 months)

Tory and her best friend Ashley

The weather warmed up enough to go for a walk outside on Sunday (!!!) which was quite the shift from Friday's snow storm. That's springtime in Minnesota. We stayed up far too late on Saturday night (11:00 pm) for people who are up with kids half the night. Andi, Tory and I were all tired and cranky Sunday morning (again with the being at home on a weekend thing messing with our mojo) so we brewed some coffee, packed up the kids and drove over to our friends Krista and Josh's house to take a stroll around Lake Minnetonka. Tory and her other BFF Hannah splashed through puddles and we all got some much-needed fresh air.




Sunday evening, Andi's mom and sister volunteered to babysit for a few hours, so Andi went to dinner with friends and I had to stop myself from squealing my tires out of the drive-way for some alone time. I love my husband and my kids, but staying home for a weekend really flips life upside down for us. It was a good weekend, but a busy one and very similar to my everyday. I'm exhausted starting my week today and miss the quiet retreat and slower pace of life our lake cabin provides us every weekend. It's a gift; it truly is, and I think Andi and I take our magical place for granted sometimes. I'm already counting the minutes until our return on Friday.

Friday, April 4, 2014

Little Photographer

I'm taking weekly photos of Aden next to the zebra, just like I did every week during the first year of Tory's life. I love looking back on these photographs to see how much Aden (and, then Tory) grew in a week's time. It's amazing how much (she did, and) he is changing week-over-week (i.e.: 19 weeks, hello little neck!).



It was a lot easier to take photographs of Tory because Andi and I took all the pictures together. He was the photographer and I posed / caught her every time she fell over, or booked it out of the chair as time when on. This time around, I've been taking the photos myself. Well, with the help of my little photography assistant, Miss Tory. The perfectionist in me wants Aden's weekly photos to be taken on the exact day he turns another week older, and Andi's not always around to help with photos on that day. It's ridiculous, but it completely stresses me out having Tory "help" me. I'm performing multiple tasks as I pose Aden, catch him from falling over (little dude has the roundest butt, I swear), keep Tory outside the frame of the picture and bat away any toys she throws into the mix. Usually, I snap a few photos and call it good because I lose my patience quickly.

Anyway, the other day I was taking photos of the kids in the living room and Tory asked me if she could have my camera. It's just a regular point and shoot, not a big fancy one, so I handed it to her. Tory walked over to the brown chair where I take Aden's photo every week and snapped this picture of her little dollhouse figurines. She'd set them up all by herself.



I mean, isn't that the cutest thing you've ever seen?

Monkey see, monkey do.


It was one of those parenting moments that stopped me in my tracks. While I've never gotten mad at Tory for "wrecking" my weekly photo sessions with Aden, I do become internally frustrated and stop with a huff under my breath. And really, why? Because I didn't get the best shot of Aden with his zebra on his weekly birthday? How silly.

Little eyes are always watching and imitating what they see. My little photographer taught me a good lesson on this day.